The common picture of drug addicts is someone tweaked out in an abandoned building, unable to control themselves as they sink deeper and deeper into their dark comforts. The picture of the addict is grimy, frazzled, and sleepless. Their bodies are covered in scabs and scars, and their eyes are as dead as their souls. There is truth to the stereotypes in the most severe circumstances, but it may come as a shock there are drug addicts walking among you who don’t show it. That real estate agent in the office next door may have a bad cocaine habit.
Drug Abuse and Denial: Fear of Ostracizing
There are bad connotations concerning drug addicts. There’s the air of selfishness, a lack of self-discipline, laziness…the list goes on. The intricacies of addiction aren’t always easy to understand; many people believe mistakenly that it’s all just a matter of willpower. Those who care about the addict may feel that if their love is strong enough, the addict could beat this. As we said, anyone can become an addict, and willpower simply isn’t part of the equation.
Because of the bad implications addiction brings to the mind, those who are addicted may underplay the severity of their addiction to themselves and to others. Someone who drinks frequently may believe he is well within the social norms or that it’s okay on the weekend. When they start to sneak extra booze into their schedule throughout the week, it doesn’t seem noticeable, but the addiction has a foothold and it could only get worse without the victim even knowing what happened or how it got there.
On a similar note, someone who cares for an addict may shy away from calling it a problem. They may overlook – intentionally or otherwise – the clues that appear here and there and may even defend an addict’s actions. It’s only when things get worse that anyone addresses the proverbial elephant in the room. Sometimes, an addict knows what’s going on and becomes good at hiding their actions, sweeping any clues under the rug.